Anger

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Behaviour Change

Hypnosis can definitely help change your behaviour. Do you find that you are frequently angry, that you keep blaming others? Is it difficult to keep your anger under control? Behavioural patterns are frequently learned in our early years.

Help with my Anger

Why hold on to anger? Just because you got hurt perhaps 25 years ago doesn’t mean you have to keep hurting. Whoever caused you the pain has most likely forgotten about it and yet it is still having power over you. The anger inside you doesn’t affect him/her at all but is certainly harmful to you. Just think about it! How much pain have you suffered by having these unpleasant feelings.

We tend to find ways of coping with pain and sometimes it is the best we can do, but it never works long-term because coping doesn’t change the feeling inside. It actually makes it worse as more energy is invested in keeping down the pressure. Hidden feelings don’t just disappear, in fact quite frequently they come up as symptoms of diseases.

All feelings are there to teach us something about ourselves. Feeling angry is very often the feeling of being paralysed or of being a victim. If you ask yourself, “Do I want to keep feeling this way?” and the answer is ‘No’, there are several ways to go about it. Hypnosis is certainly not magic but sometimes it can seem this way, especially when you are left at ease after living with a feeling that can be so debilitating.

Advanced masters such as Buddha or Osho would advise you not to become attached to a feeling but not to push them away either. That way we can learn that feelings come and go. With the use of hypnosis we are likely to find a faster relief from an unwanted feeling. There is nothing wrong with anger as it is simply a reaction to what we perceive. Often it will motivate us to change our lives and fix certain injustices. However, at times the event has occurred too long ago to change a situation.

Deep-rooted anger needs to be released. It keeps us in the past and doesn’t allow us to live life fully. To release anger is always a sign of strength, it is a message to ourselves that we want to move forward and feel good about ourselves. It does not justify what was done to us but helps us to have a far more positive future. Once the anger has gone, you will feel a lightness inside your body and a wonderful clarity.

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Teeth grinding – Bruxism

teeth grinding problem helpBruxism is the term used for grinding and clenching the jaw. It can lead to damaged teeth but also to headaches, gum problems, tight shoulders and even earache. Some people are aware they are doing it as it happens for them while awake others don’t notice as it occurs while sleeping. They are told by partners but also notice the tension in their jaws when waking up.

Hypnosis can be very effective as it will release the tension that is causing the teeth grinding. Anxiety and tension are often the causes of bruxism. Hypnotherapy helps to get to the root cause of the problem and of course release it too. It also helps you find better ways of dealing with tension and coping with difficult situations.

Tension and anxiety are just some of the reasons that cause teeth grinding. Hypnosis can help you to change certain thought patterns and of course lower tension and release anxiety. Teeth grinding lets you know that your body is suffering stress and anxiety.

Children and hypnosis

Children are often excellent subjects when using hypnosis, meaning that they respond well to hypnotherapy. I often see children or teenagers that have been to CAMHS (Child and Adolescent Mental Health Services) who feel helpless and powerless and whose parents are looking for an alternative to help their children.
Most. problems stem from underlying emotional issues. This is not a judgement on the family, because even with the most loving background there can be areas that have an effect on a child, whether they are aware of it or not.

There are so many issues that can be helped using hypnotherapy and that way change a child’s life. Just like adults, children can easily be regressed and that way reveal the sources of their issues. Children have to deal with many changes in their lives, like moving house, bullying, or criticism. They may have a hard time making friends, handling school, fitting in. Just like adults they react to worry and stress in different ways. Children become angry, school work suffers, they become distracted, get headaches, stop eating, have stomach problems and so the list goes on. Small problems they used to have may become more pronounced. Maybe they can’t sleep or develop a sudden fear of animals, they may become frightened of going to the doctor, they may not want to leave the house etc. Parents are doing their best to help but it doesn’t change much for the child.

The process of hypnotherapy is very relaxing but at the same time releases anxiety and fear, and is a therapy that can completely change the outlook on life.